Still Becoming: The Beauty of Not Arriving Yet

*By Solé Amari | Consist And See Inc.

There’s a quiet grief that comes with feeling like you should be further along by now.

You glance at your age, your job, your bank account, your relationships—and something whispers, “You’re behind.”

But behind what? A timeline that wasn’t authored by God?

Today, I want to speak to the woman—or man—who feels late, less than, or left out. The truth is: you haven’t missed anything that Heaven intended to be yours. And if it hasn’t come yet, then you’re still being prepared to carry it properly.

We serve a God who will withhold no good thing—but He’s also the One who won’t release a blessing you’re not ready to steward. That delay? It might be divine protection. That slow season? A spiritual reset. That “square one” moment? A holy classroom.

Sometimes we ask God for harvest in a season meant for pruning. But He’s too wise to let us prosper in pride. His love slows us down until we can be trusted to carry His glory—not just our goals.

So, if you’re still becoming…

Be gentle with yourself.

You’re not behind—you’re being built.

Before He gives the increase, He checks the soil. Before He promotes, He prunes. Before He sends the platform, He secures your posture. Why? Because mishandled blessings don’t glorify God—they sabotage legacy.

Let this be your reminder:

Even when you feel overlooked, underqualified, or “late,” God’s grace is still sufficient. His plan is still active. And you are still on time.

Reflection Thought:

There are no early arrivals in the Kingdom—only right-time readiness.

Analogy:

It’s like giving a toddler a set of car keys. They may know what a car does, but without maturity, knowledge, and the discipline to drive it—they’ll crash the very thing meant to bless them. The delay isn’t denial. It’s safety. It’s love. It’s wisdom.

Let God finish what He started in you. You’re not just waiting…

You’re becoming.